After being raised in a cult-like religion, I broke free in my late teens. Now that I’m in my 30s, I’ve connected with others with the same background. Since the religion is so strict with its members that any individual caught associating with people deemed “undesirable” is immediately cut off from their family, I’ve walked a fine line. Forcing me to use my legal name means there’s a chance I could lose my family if they find out what groups I’m in. I’ve already left a public group because of my forced name change. I ask, is this fair for us?